Things are very different these days , as compared to the way they were. Especially on Craigslist and how people’s attitudes and needs changed. I’ve tried finding guys to strike up a friendship, or more. Seems no one is looking for a 60’s chubby guy. And I can understand some aren’t into non masculine guys. But no matter what people say, things have changed. I would love to find someone I could visit from time to time. You never know what can happen..